When people do not use their wisdom and act purely on the basis of emotions, then you will see that they quarrel over very trivial matters. We should not give anyone a chance to take advantage of us, or deceive us.
Endurance, equanimity, compassion and ones abilities to take challenges with a smile, these values need to be awarded and not take pride in aggression like they do these days
Being right does not mean being harsh and being kind doesn’t mean just letting anything happen. Kindness is not complacence and righteousness is not just aggression.
I consider aggression as a sign of weakness. Anger is a sign of weakness.