Just be yourself. Be natural and be simple. Relationships develop naturally. If you try to build a relationship that is when you become a little artificial. Then your behavior becomes artificial which is not natural.
Endurance, equanimity, compassion and ones abilities to take challenges with a smile, these values need to be awarded and not take pride in aggression like they do these days
Being right does not mean being harsh and being kind doesn’t mean just letting anything happen. Kindness is not complacence and righteousness is not just aggression.
I consider aggression as a sign of weakness. Anger is a sign of weakness.